Hello again,
I'm sorry for being a bit absent lately but I haven't felt like posting as much as before and i've also been busy with other stuff.
There has been some drama around the Portuguese community in the recent past, it came from (I hope) non-lolitas, only people who claim to like the fashion and yet would like to insult very openly the few people who actually care about the fashion dearly in their country. I do not get it and i will never get it. I get the frustration, I get being mad for several reasons but i will never get nor forgive the betrayal, the fakeness and just overall the evil nature of those people.
That all being said, I'd like to ask people not to steal content from my blog, my posts on livejournal and the Portuguese lolita community without permission if possible. Thank you.
I am sorry for bringing this up but I just had to before i can keep posting here like this. It sounds naive and some of you might think I'm lying but honestly i had never felt exposed until these last month's drama posts came to be. Also my familly was affected by this, as these people insulted us all, exposing even my own real name as well as my familly's name.
I hope you undertand (and if you have created drama in the past, read this, think about it and just stop. Everyone has to be better than this).
Love,
J
I'm glad you're back sweety ^^
ResponderEliminarThat's disgusting,I wonder why Lolita communities are always full of drama :/ Here in Spain are the same.
ResponderEliminarI know that I could take extra Japanese classes but it is impossible to do it at the same time as the course. For instance, if, like you said, I was taking private classes in Porto I could only do it on weekends and I have to travel to Porto because I live like, 1h by bus. It will be very hard to handle :/
ResponderEliminarOf course I want to go to Japan, but as you said, I have to be realistic... It is not impossible but I have to pick the right way that can lead me there. There are only two scholarships for Japan in my course and I can't focus on Japanese while having other things to worry about. Beside, I can't compete with friends that already knew Japanese before and did the JLPT with a good level.
I have been so unmotivated that my general results are going down...
I will try other European universities... As long as I get a scholarships is fine. It is not easy to enter those Universities, but right now I feel like I have to try something :/
Meanwhile I will continue studying Japanese at home intensively. Maybe I can find a job and save some money for Japan... don't know...
You are right, being a grown up sucks xD
I am really happy that you came to my blog and gave me your advice <3 it means much, thank you <3
Now about your other comment...
ResponderEliminar"if you're not engaged with people who like the same things as you do and who will encourage you and whatnot you'll likely stop making the effort" this is sooo true!
It is like, my boyfriend supports me although he didn't like the way the clothes look... He always said "If you like it you should buy it" but when I ask his opinion about the dress he says "I don't like it but the dress is for you..."
My parents just say that it is too much money... My mother insists that those clothes are for children... My brother don't like it too but only comments when I ask him to.
For so many times I was really committed to buy something, even with enough money on my paypal account, and at the last time I gave up >.<
Maybe if I find a job I can restart but for now it is impossible financially...
Heartless: Thank you for all the support.
ResponderEliminarMissV: Thing is, it wasn't until this year, before that we only had the typical female discussions that occurr everywhere and for everything.
Miaww: You really should start coming to meetings, not BIG ones, come to small friend reunions and i'll have you talk to the people who can make you feel good about lolita. No drama, no stress, just a nice talk and some tea. <3
Also if you want to go to Japan, do it now, never seen plain tickets so cheap. :P